A. Do you feel distant or disconnected from your spouse?
- all the time
- frequently
- occasionally
- rarely
- never
- fewer than six times a year
- maybe six times a year
- once or twice a quarter
- once or twice a week
- at least once a week
- I can't remember
- last month
- last week
- a few days ago
- today
- I can't remember
- last month
- last week
- a few days ago
- today
- We hardly ever touch
- We almost never kiss but sometimes we hold hands
- We hug and kiss occasionally, but mostly hold hands, massage, pat, etc.
- We hug and kiss and fondle at least once a day
- We touch whenever we're near each other
- less than 10 minutes
- 10 to 15 minutes
- 15 to 30 minutes
- 30 to 60 minutes
- more than an hour
- whenever we're together
- almost every day
- at least once a week
- more than once a month
- I can't remember the last time
- There's no point in discussing it; I shut down
- We probably will not reach an agreeable conclusion
- We may or may not be able to work through it
- It's discordant in the moment, but later we come to an agreement
- We have the tools to resolve it quickly and effectively
I. How would you rank your emotional intimacy with each other?
- I can't stand to be near my spouse
- I used to like my partner but find it difficult to be together now
- We like being together when we can find the time
- We are best friends who unfortunately get busy with life
- We are extremely close
- a black hole
- a dark night
- a bit cloudy, but I can still see the moon
- a cloudless night with a full moon and plenty of stars
- fireworks and shooting stars
90-100% Five Stars! Celebrate your success!
80-90% You're doing well, but still have room to grow
70-80% A pretty mediocre result; definitely needs improvement
60-70% Oh dear! Make some commitments to nurture your relationship
50-60% It's not hopeless, but it will take a lot of work to get back on track
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